"It's not true that life is one damn thing after another; it's one damn thing over and over"
About this Quote
The intent is quietly heretical. In a culture that treats adversity as character-building narrative, Millay suggests the opposite: repetition is the real tyrant. That “damn” does double duty, signaling both exasperation and an almost religious sense of being cursed into patterns you can’t outgrow. The wit comes from how conversational it sounds, like something tossed off at a party, while it’s actually a philosophy of time: less a line than a loop.
Context matters. Millay wrote in the early 20th century, when modern life was selling speed, novelty, and liberation. Her work often pushed against moral scripts, especially around love, autonomy, and the costs of freedom. Read against that backdrop, the quote feels like an anti-modernist punchline: the new century promises reinvention; Millay replies that the self is sticky, history is recursive, and even rebellion can become routine. The sting is that the joke lands because we recognize ourselves in the repetition.
Quote Details
| Topic | Life |
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| Source | Verified source: Oxford Dictionary of Humorous Quotations (Gyles Brandreth, 2013)ISBN: 9780199681365 · ID: kcycAQAAQBAJ
Evidence:
... It's not true that life is one damn thing after another it's one damn thing over and over . □ Edna St Vincent Millay 1892-1950 American poet : letter to Arthur Davison Ficke , 24 October 1930 28 There are three ingredients in the good ... |
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Millay, Edna St. Vincent. (2026, February 8). It's not true that life is one damn thing after another; it's one damn thing over and over. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-not-true-that-life-is-one-damn-thing-after-140604/
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Millay, Edna St. Vincent. "It's not true that life is one damn thing after another; it's one damn thing over and over." FixQuotes. February 8, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-not-true-that-life-is-one-damn-thing-after-140604/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's not true that life is one damn thing after another; it's one damn thing over and over." FixQuotes, 8 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-not-true-that-life-is-one-damn-thing-after-140604/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.













