"It's not vanity to feel you have a right to be beautiful. Women are taught to feel we're not good enough, that we must live up to someone else's standards. But my aim is to cherish myself as I am"
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The subtext is less “everyone is beautiful” and more “stop treating women’s self-image like a courtroom.” She identifies the mechanism - training. “Women are taught” frames insecurity as something engineered, not innate. That matters because it shifts blame from individual “low self-esteem” to an ecosystem: advertising, fashion, gossip media, and the everyday policing that tells women they’re either trying too hard or not trying enough.
Then she makes a strategic pivot: “my aim is to cherish myself as I am.” Coming from a model, that’s not a Hallmark sentiment; it’s an attempt to renegotiate the contract. Modeling sells the fantasy of an ideal, but Macpherson is arguing for a private standard that can’t be audited. It’s a soft form of resistance: refusing to outsource your worth, even when your job description once did exactly that.
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| Topic | Self-Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Macpherson, Elle. (2026, January 16). It's not vanity to feel you have a right to be beautiful. Women are taught to feel we're not good enough, that we must live up to someone else's standards. But my aim is to cherish myself as I am. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-not-vanity-to-feel-you-have-a-right-to-be-110561/
Chicago Style
Macpherson, Elle. "It's not vanity to feel you have a right to be beautiful. Women are taught to feel we're not good enough, that we must live up to someone else's standards. But my aim is to cherish myself as I am." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-not-vanity-to-feel-you-have-a-right-to-be-110561/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's not vanity to feel you have a right to be beautiful. Women are taught to feel we're not good enough, that we must live up to someone else's standards. But my aim is to cherish myself as I am." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-not-vanity-to-feel-you-have-a-right-to-be-110561/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.










