"It's only fair that stable gay relationships of long standing should have the same rights and responsibilities as married couples. I know the image of gay marriage is to some people horrific and ludicrous"
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Then comes the jolt: “horrific and ludicrous.” McKellen doesn’t sanitize the opposition; he quotes its emotional temperature back to itself. The move is both generous and scalpel-sharp. He concedes that disgust exists without granting it moral authority. By naming the reaction plainly, he exposes how thin the argument often is: not a reasoned case, but a vibe.
Context matters. McKellen is an actor with institutional credibility - a knighted Shakespeare man, not an outsider lobbing grenades. That status lets him do a particular kind of cultural judo: he uses the voice of establishment respectability to argue that equal marriage isn’t a radical redefinition of society, it’s society catching up to the reality already living next door. The subtext is clear: if your objection is “it looks weird,” you’re admitting you have no better one.
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Mckellen, Ian. (2026, January 15). It's only fair that stable gay relationships of long standing should have the same rights and responsibilities as married couples. I know the image of gay marriage is to some people horrific and ludicrous. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-only-fair-that-stable-gay-relationships-of-146873/
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Mckellen, Ian. "It's only fair that stable gay relationships of long standing should have the same rights and responsibilities as married couples. I know the image of gay marriage is to some people horrific and ludicrous." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-only-fair-that-stable-gay-relationships-of-146873/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's only fair that stable gay relationships of long standing should have the same rights and responsibilities as married couples. I know the image of gay marriage is to some people horrific and ludicrous." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-only-fair-that-stable-gay-relationships-of-146873/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

