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"It's only fair that stable gay relationships of long standing should have the same rights and responsibilities as married couples. I know the image of gay marriage is to some people horrific and ludicrous"

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McKellen’s line works because it refuses the trap of begging for approval. He opens with “only fair,” a phrase that sounds almost boring, like a civic policy memo, and that’s the point: he drags gay partnership out of the cultural panic zone and into the realm of ordinary governance. “Stable,” “long standing,” “rights and responsibilities” are strategically chosen. He’s not pitching romance; he’s pitching reciprocity. If society values commitment because it distributes care, money, inheritance, and obligation in predictable ways, then excluding gay couples isn’t tradition - it’s a carve-out for prejudice.

Then comes the jolt: “horrific and ludicrous.” McKellen doesn’t sanitize the opposition; he quotes its emotional temperature back to itself. The move is both generous and scalpel-sharp. He concedes that disgust exists without granting it moral authority. By naming the reaction plainly, he exposes how thin the argument often is: not a reasoned case, but a vibe.

Context matters. McKellen is an actor with institutional credibility - a knighted Shakespeare man, not an outsider lobbing grenades. That status lets him do a particular kind of cultural judo: he uses the voice of establishment respectability to argue that equal marriage isn’t a radical redefinition of society, it’s society catching up to the reality already living next door. The subtext is clear: if your objection is “it looks weird,” you’re admitting you have no better one.

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Ian Mckellen (born May 25, 1939) is a Actor from England.

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