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Daily Inspiration Quote by Marguerite Duras

"It's only women who are not really quite women at all, frivolous women who have no idea, who neglect repairs"

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A slap in the face disguised as domestic advice: Duras takes the supposedly harmless language of upkeep and turns it into an indictment of gender itself. The sting is in the phrase "not really quite women at all". It mimics the old policing mechanism women have always faced - a tribunal of authenticity where "real" womanhood is defined by competence, sacrifice, and vigilance. Then she ties that authenticity to "repairs", a word that sounds like housekeeping but reads as moral maintenance: keeping the home, the body, the relationship, the whole social fabric from falling apart.

Duras isn't neutrally describing women; she's ventriloquizing a cultural voice that equates femininity with unpaid labor and perpetual readiness. Calling the negligent ones "frivolous" is the tell. Frivolity is the charge leveled at any woman who treats her time as her own rather than as a public utility. The insult has a double edge: it punishes women for refusing the caretaking role, and it flatters the caretakers by offering them a badge of legitimacy - you're "quite women" because you patch the leaks.

Context matters: Duras writes out of a 20th-century France that liked its women emancipated in theory and domesticated in practice. Her novels obsess over desire, dependency, and the quiet violence of social scripts. Read that way, the line functions less as Duras's belief than as a specimen pinned to the page: the casual cruelty of norms, spoken as common sense, revealing how gender becomes a job you can be fired from if you stop doing the maintenance.

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Duras, Marguerite. (2026, January 17). It's only women who are not really quite women at all, frivolous women who have no idea, who neglect repairs. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-only-women-who-are-not-really-quite-women-at-81763/

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Duras, Marguerite. "It's only women who are not really quite women at all, frivolous women who have no idea, who neglect repairs." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-only-women-who-are-not-really-quite-women-at-81763/.

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"It's only women who are not really quite women at all, frivolous women who have no idea, who neglect repairs." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-only-women-who-are-not-really-quite-women-at-81763/. Accessed 26 Feb. 2026.

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Marguerite Duras (April 4, 1914 - March 3, 1996) was a Novelist from France.

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