"It's pretty simple, pretty obvious: that people's first impressions of people are really a big mistake"
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The subtext is about roles, not just people. First impressions are the casting call version of human judgment: you see the silhouette and assume you know the whole character. Coming from an actor known for vanishing into extremes, the statement reads as both professional grievance and cultural critique. D'Onofrio’s career has thrived on defying the audience’s sorting habits (leading man, villain, weirdo, cop, monster). His work demonstrates how much of identity is angle, lighting, timing, costume - context. So when he says first impressions are a “big mistake,” he’s arguing that our initial read is often just our own projection: bias masquerading as intuition.
There’s also a quiet moral push. The repetition of “pretty” softens the blow, but the message is blunt: you’re not as fair as you think. In an era built on thumbnails, hot takes, and immediate verdicts, D'Onofrio’s point is less self-help than counter-programming. He’s insisting on second looks - not as politeness, but as accuracy.
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"It's pretty simple, pretty obvious: that people's first impressions of people are really a big mistake." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-pretty-simple-pretty-obvious-that-peoples-129476/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






