"It's really comforting for me and Jeff, at least, that after 12 years we finally feel we've reached a place where we can be more honest, real and loving with each other. And we're finally in a band that we know is good, and deserves the credit it's getting"
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The “comforting” part matters. He frames honesty and love not as lofty ideals, but as hard-won upgrades to the day-to-day mechanics of being around the same people, on buses and in studios, while the world projects narratives onto you. Naming Jeff (Ament) makes it intimate and practical, like a private truce made public. The subtext is that earlier eras weren’t always “real” or “loving” - not because anyone was fake, but because pressure, grief, and fame turn communication into a strategy game. In rock, masculinity often means swallowing conflict until it becomes a breakup; Gossard is quietly rejecting that script.
Then he pivots to validation: “we’re finally in a band that we know is good.” That’s not false modesty; it’s an admission that acclaim can feel unearned when it arrives faster than cohesion. The phrase “deserves the credit” reveals a longstanding suspicion of hype - the sense that recognition is only meaningful when it matches internal standards, not sales or mythology. It’s an artist insisting that the real milestone isn’t a chart position, it’s reaching a place where the band’s public reputation finally aligns with its private reality.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Gossard, Stone. (2026, January 15). It's really comforting for me and Jeff, at least, that after 12 years we finally feel we've reached a place where we can be more honest, real and loving with each other. And we're finally in a band that we know is good, and deserves the credit it's getting. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-really-comforting-for-me-and-jeff-at-least-107183/
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Gossard, Stone. "It's really comforting for me and Jeff, at least, that after 12 years we finally feel we've reached a place where we can be more honest, real and loving with each other. And we're finally in a band that we know is good, and deserves the credit it's getting." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-really-comforting-for-me-and-jeff-at-least-107183/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's really comforting for me and Jeff, at least, that after 12 years we finally feel we've reached a place where we can be more honest, real and loving with each other. And we're finally in a band that we know is good, and deserves the credit it's getting." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-really-comforting-for-me-and-jeff-at-least-107183/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.


