"It's really difficult for me. Language, I am sorry that I haven't. I think I just always expected that you learn a word in place of a word and when I discovered how difficult the grammar was and learning that was very discouraging for me"
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The intent is plainly apologetic - a public figure trying to account for a perceived shortcoming, likely in an interview context where fluency becomes a proxy for seriousness or cosmopolitan credibility. But the subtext is sharper: she’s pushing back against an expectation that language is a neat exchange system, where every English word has a matching counterpart you can swap in. That "word in place of a word" belief is the fantasy of translation sold by phrasebooks, movie travel scenes, and the idea that cultural competence is something you can purchase quickly.
When she hits grammar, the quote reveals the real wound: grammar isn’t just rules; it’s a different way of organizing thought, status, and belonging. "Very discouraging" lands as emotional truth rather than melodrama, because discouragement isn’t about laziness - it’s about suddenly feeling childish in public, stripped of charisma and control. Coming from an actress, a profession built on mastery of delivery, it’s especially pointed. The struggle isn’t only with language; it’s with losing the ability to perform yourself convincingly.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Derek, Bo. (2026, January 17). It's really difficult for me. Language, I am sorry that I haven't. I think I just always expected that you learn a word in place of a word and when I discovered how difficult the grammar was and learning that was very discouraging for me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-really-difficult-for-me-language-i-am-sorry-42818/
Chicago Style
Derek, Bo. "It's really difficult for me. Language, I am sorry that I haven't. I think I just always expected that you learn a word in place of a word and when I discovered how difficult the grammar was and learning that was very discouraging for me." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-really-difficult-for-me-language-i-am-sorry-42818/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's really difficult for me. Language, I am sorry that I haven't. I think I just always expected that you learn a word in place of a word and when I discovered how difficult the grammar was and learning that was very discouraging for me." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-really-difficult-for-me-language-i-am-sorry-42818/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





