"It's sometimes unnerving to think of that, and I wish it were possible for all children in the world to have the good fortune I've had in having a giving and loving family"
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As an actor associated with mid-century American television’s clean-cut ideals, MacArthur’s phrasing reads like a deliberate refusal to glamorize success as self-made. He doesn’t cite talent, discipline, or hustle. He cites “good fortune,” then narrows it to something unflashy but foundational: “a giving and loving family.” The specificity matters. He’s not asking for abstract “opportunity” or “values”; he’s naming daily emotional labor, the kind that rarely appears on a resume but shapes everything that does.
The wish “for all children in the world” risks sounding broad, yet it functions as a kind of ethical pressure valve. He can’t repay his own childhood; he can only widen the circle in imagination. The subtext is a gentle indictment: if a loving home is luck, then societies that treat family stability as a private luxury are choosing to leave children to chance. In that sense, the quote isn’t sentimental. It’s a soft-spoken discomfort with inequality, delivered in the language of affection rather than ideology.
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| Topic | Family |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
MacArthur, James. (n.d.). It's sometimes unnerving to think of that, and I wish it were possible for all children in the world to have the good fortune I've had in having a giving and loving family. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-sometimes-unnerving-to-think-of-that-and-i-56330/
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MacArthur, James. "It's sometimes unnerving to think of that, and I wish it were possible for all children in the world to have the good fortune I've had in having a giving and loving family." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-sometimes-unnerving-to-think-of-that-and-i-56330/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's sometimes unnerving to think of that, and I wish it were possible for all children in the world to have the good fortune I've had in having a giving and loving family." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-sometimes-unnerving-to-think-of-that-and-i-56330/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.







