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"It's sort of the most important thing for acting, is to listen to the person you're dealing with"

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Acting gets sold as charisma, transformation, and the magic trick of becoming someone else. Reitman flips that mythology on its head: the “most important thing” isn’t what you project, it’s what you receive. The phrasing is telling. “It’s sort of” has the casual shrug of someone who’s been around enough sets to distrust grand theories, while still landing the thesis like a hammer. The authority isn’t in certainty; it’s in craftsperson realism.

“Listen to the person you’re dealing with” is also a quiet demotion of the actor-as-soloist fantasy. He’s insisting on acting as a social act, closer to a game of catch than a monologue. Subtext: if you’re preloading your choices, mugging for the camera, or chasing your “moment,” you’re not acting, you’re performing at someone. Listening is the discipline that prevents that narcissistic drift. It’s how you stay in the scene instead of hovering above it, managing your image.

Context matters, too. Reitman’s career (as a director-producer associated with ensemble comedy and clean, human pacing) prizes responsiveness: timing, reaction shots, the micro-beat where a joke becomes believable because someone actually registers it. Listening is where spontaneity lives, and spontaneity is what makes scripted dialogue feel like thought. The line doubles as an ethics statement: treat your scene partner as a person, not a prop for your showcase. On a set, that’s not just artistry; it’s leadership.

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Reitman, Ivan. (2026, January 17). It's sort of the most important thing for acting, is to listen to the person you're dealing with. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-sort-of-the-most-important-thing-for-acting-61898/

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"It's sort of the most important thing for acting, is to listen to the person you're dealing with." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-sort-of-the-most-important-thing-for-acting-61898/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.

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Ivan Reitman (born October 27, 1946) is a Actor from Canada.

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