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Love & Passion Quote by T. S. Eliot

"It's strange that words are so inadequate. Yet, like the asthmatic struggling for breath, so the lover must struggle for words"

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Eliot turns a familiar complaint about language into something physically urgent: speech as a body failing under pressure. The asthmatic simile is deliberately unromantic. Love, the culture tells us, should make people eloquent; Eliot flips it and insists that intensity sabotages fluency. The lover is not a serenader with perfect lines but a person gulping at air, reaching for phrases that won’t arrive fast enough. That awkwardness is the point. The image makes “inadequate” feel less like a mild limitation and more like a crisis of containment: feeling expands, the throat narrows.

The subtext is classic Eliot: modern consciousness trapped between what it experiences and what it can responsibly articulate. Words aren’t simply too small; they’re suspect. In Eliot’s world, language is worn down by overuse, social performance, and self-deception. So when love demands sincerity, the lover confronts a medium that has been cheapened by cliché. The struggle isn’t just to find any words, but to find words that haven’t already been spent.

Contextually, this sits comfortably inside early 20th-century modernism, where the old rhetorical certainties had collapsed and private feeling didn’t map neatly onto public speech. Eliot’s lovers are not triumphant romantics; they’re modern subjects, hyper-aware of how expression can betray them. The line works because it makes that anxiety visceral. Breath is what keeps you alive. If love takes your breath away, Eliot suggests, it also takes away your language - and leaves you wrestling for both.

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T. S. Eliot

T. S. Eliot (September 26, 1888 - January 4, 1965) was a Poet from USA.

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