"It's such a crass idea - you're either in love or out of love"
About this Quote
The sentence is structured like a shrug with a knife in it. “Such a crass idea” sets the moral temperature, then the dash delivers the diagnosis: we like clean narratives because they let us stop paying attention. Being “in love” is a story with clear lighting, a category you can announce, Instagram, sell. Being “out of love” is its tidy sequel. Hirst is resisting the implied demand to perform certainty - the way modern culture treats feelings as states, not weather.
Contextually, it fits an era where relationships are managed like status updates and identities are increasingly declarative. It also echoes Hirst’s long-running interest in how institutions sanitize the grotesque: the gallery vitrines, the clinical display, the way death becomes design. Here, love gets the same treatment. The subtext: if you’re forced to pick a side, you’re already speaking someone else’s language - and it’s usually a marketplace’s.
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| Topic | Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hirst, Damien. (2026, January 16). It's such a crass idea - you're either in love or out of love. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-such-a-crass-idea-youre-either-in-love-or-101988/
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Hirst, Damien. "It's such a crass idea - you're either in love or out of love." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-such-a-crass-idea-youre-either-in-love-or-101988/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's such a crass idea - you're either in love or out of love." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-such-a-crass-idea-youre-either-in-love-or-101988/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.










