"It's too hard a life for me. I could only do it - check out in that sense - if I checked out somewhere that was luxurious and within hailing distance of civilization"
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The phrase “check out” does double duty. It’s the language of escape (dropping out, going off-grid, opting out of the noise) and the language of hotels. Jacobi stitches those meanings together, turning withdrawal into something transactional and temporary, not heroic. That’s the subtext: even our anti-civilization impulses are shaped by consumer expectations. We want silence, but we also want Wi-Fi. We want solitude, but not too much solitude.
“Luxurious” and “within hailing distance of civilization” is the punchline, but it’s also the point. He’s not rejecting society; he’s negotiating his proximity to it. For an actor of Jacobi’s generation - formed in institutions, repertory schedules, public scrutiny - the idea of disappearing reads less like rebellion and more like fatigue management. The intent isn’t to sound profound. It’s to reclaim honesty in a culture that constantly flatters extremes: total hustle or total renunciation. Jacobi opts for a third option, saying, with dry precision, that the dream of escape is itself a creature of civilization - and he’d like it in a nicer room.
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| Topic | Retirement |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jacobi, Derek. (2026, January 17). It's too hard a life for me. I could only do it - check out in that sense - if I checked out somewhere that was luxurious and within hailing distance of civilization. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-too-hard-a-life-for-me-i-could-only-do-it-51130/
Chicago Style
Jacobi, Derek. "It's too hard a life for me. I could only do it - check out in that sense - if I checked out somewhere that was luxurious and within hailing distance of civilization." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-too-hard-a-life-for-me-i-could-only-do-it-51130/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's too hard a life for me. I could only do it - check out in that sense - if I checked out somewhere that was luxurious and within hailing distance of civilization." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-too-hard-a-life-for-me-i-could-only-do-it-51130/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.









