"Its unfortunate and I really wish I wouldn't have to say this, but I really like human beings who have suffered. They're kinder"
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Then she swerves into a taboo preference: “I really like human beings who have suffered.” Not admire, not respect - like. The intimacy of the verb matters. She’s talking about felt proximity, the kind of trust you extend to someone who’s been cornered by life and didn’t turn predatory. The subtext is experiential: suffering can sand down entitlement. It can teach people the social skill of noticing, because they’ve needed to be noticed.
The last two words - “They’re kinder” - land like a verdict, and also a quiet indictment of comfort. Kindness here isn’t niceness; it’s the practiced ability to treat other people as real when you’re exhausted, scared, or disappointed. Thompson is pointing to an ethics born from bruises, not from branding.
Contextually, it reads as both personal and cultural: a public figure pushing back on celebrity culture’s glossy invulnerability. She’s not praising trauma; she’s praising the rare, hard-won perspective that sometimes survives it.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Thompson, Emma. (2026, January 17). Its unfortunate and I really wish I wouldn't have to say this, but I really like human beings who have suffered. They're kinder. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-unfortunate-and-i-really-wish-i-wouldnt-have-50880/
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Thompson, Emma. "Its unfortunate and I really wish I wouldn't have to say this, but I really like human beings who have suffered. They're kinder." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-unfortunate-and-i-really-wish-i-wouldnt-have-50880/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Its unfortunate and I really wish I wouldn't have to say this, but I really like human beings who have suffered. They're kinder." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-unfortunate-and-i-really-wish-i-wouldnt-have-50880/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.





