"It's very expensive to be me. It's terrible the things I have to do to be me"
About this Quote
The second sentence sharpens into something darker. “It’s terrible the things I have to do to be me” hints at labor that isn’t supposed to be called labor: the performance of sex appeal, the smiling through humiliation, the negotiation of power with men who can bankroll you or break you, the daily upkeep of an image that the culture claims is effortless. It’s confession and indictment at once, aimed less at her own choices than at the system that monetizes her body while treating her personhood as optional.
Context matters: Smith was a late-90s/early-2000s tabloid fixture, marketed as a punchline, a gold-digger, a mess. In that climate, this quote lands like a brief moment of clarity amid the noise. She’s describing celebrity as a rigged contract: you get paid in attention, then spend it all pretending it doesn’t hurt.
Quote Details
| Topic | Witty One-Liners |
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| Source | Later attribution: Feeding the Media Beast (Mark Mathis, 2005) modern compilationISBN: 9781557533975 · ID: 49r4Ce6yyL8C
Evidence:
... Anna Nicole Smith said , " It's very expensive to be me . It's terrible the things I have to do to be me . " Major league baseball pitcher John Rocker learned the Rule of Preparation the hard way when he told Sports Illustrated about ... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Smith, Anna Nicole. (2026, February 24). It's very expensive to be me. It's terrible the things I have to do to be me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-very-expensive-to-be-me-its-terrible-the-62857/
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Smith, Anna Nicole. "It's very expensive to be me. It's terrible the things I have to do to be me." FixQuotes. February 24, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-very-expensive-to-be-me-its-terrible-the-62857/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's very expensive to be me. It's terrible the things I have to do to be me." FixQuotes, 24 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-very-expensive-to-be-me-its-terrible-the-62857/. Accessed 14 Mar. 2026.












