"It's very selfish when I write. I'm not aware, ever, of writing for another person; I'm not even really aware of writing for myself"
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The sly turn is the second clause. She isn’t writing for “another person,” but she also isn’t writing for herself. That paradox is the point. It suggests a third thing that’s neither audience nor ego: the story itself, with its own gravity, pulling language into shape. In Lee’s case - a writer celebrated for lush fantasy, gothic intensity, and dream-logic worlds - the idea tracks. Her work often feels like it’s arriving from somewhere slightly off-register, governed by atmosphere and image more than by moral messaging or market logic.
The subtext is a defense against two pressures that haunt professional writers: the demand to be relatable and the demand to be intentional. Lee implies that intention, in the managerial sense, can be a creative lie. By stripping away the “for,” she protects the private, irrational engine of invention - and quietly tells readers that if the work reaches them, it’s as an aftershock, not the mission statement.
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Lee, Tanith. (2026, January 17). It's very selfish when I write. I'm not aware, ever, of writing for another person; I'm not even really aware of writing for myself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-very-selfish-when-i-write-im-not-aware-ever-75933/
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Lee, Tanith. "It's very selfish when I write. I'm not aware, ever, of writing for another person; I'm not even really aware of writing for myself." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-very-selfish-when-i-write-im-not-aware-ever-75933/.
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"It's very selfish when I write. I'm not aware, ever, of writing for another person; I'm not even really aware of writing for myself." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-very-selfish-when-i-write-im-not-aware-ever-75933/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




