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Love Quote by Kenneth Branagh

"It's very strange that the people you love are often the people you're most cruel to"

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Branagh’s line lands because it refuses the clean moral geometry we prefer: love over here, cruelty over there. Instead, it pins cruelty to the very spaces we treat as safest. The “very strange” isn’t a shrug; it’s a performer’s observation about human behavior that plays out in kitchens and bedrooms more than courtrooms. He’s pointing to the intimate loophole: the closer someone is, the fewer consequences we imagine for our worst moods.

The subtext is about permission. We ration our sharpness in public because reputation is a tax; at home, we spend freely. The people we love become emotional “infrastructure” - assumed steady, always there to absorb impact. That’s why the cruelty is often casual, even lazy: a snapped remark, an eye-roll, a calculated silence. It’s not usually hatred; it’s unprocessed stress looking for the nearest soft target, plus the misguided confidence that love will auto-heal whatever damage we cause.

As an actor, Branagh is steeped in narratives where affection and harm share a scene: Shakespearean families, romantic dramas, domestic tragedies. The line feels like a distilled rehearsal note about stakes: the harshest dialogue often goes to the characters who know each other’s weak spots best. Cruelty requires access, and intimacy is access.

The intent isn’t to excuse that dynamic; it’s to expose how normalized it is. By calling it “strange,” he makes the familiar suddenly visible - a nudge toward accountability where we least like to practice it.

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Branagh, Kenneth. (2026, January 16). It's very strange that the people you love are often the people you're most cruel to. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-very-strange-that-the-people-you-love-are-113858/

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Branagh, Kenneth. "It's very strange that the people you love are often the people you're most cruel to." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-very-strange-that-the-people-you-love-are-113858/.

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"It's very strange that the people you love are often the people you're most cruel to." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-very-strange-that-the-people-you-love-are-113858/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Kenneth Branagh (born December 10, 1960) is a Actor from Ireland.

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