"It's very strange that the people you love are often the people you're most cruel to"
About this Quote
The subtext is about permission. We ration our sharpness in public because reputation is a tax; at home, we spend freely. The people we love become emotional “infrastructure” - assumed steady, always there to absorb impact. That’s why the cruelty is often casual, even lazy: a snapped remark, an eye-roll, a calculated silence. It’s not usually hatred; it’s unprocessed stress looking for the nearest soft target, plus the misguided confidence that love will auto-heal whatever damage we cause.
As an actor, Branagh is steeped in narratives where affection and harm share a scene: Shakespearean families, romantic dramas, domestic tragedies. The line feels like a distilled rehearsal note about stakes: the harshest dialogue often goes to the characters who know each other’s weak spots best. Cruelty requires access, and intimacy is access.
The intent isn’t to excuse that dynamic; it’s to expose how normalized it is. By calling it “strange,” he makes the familiar suddenly visible - a nudge toward accountability where we least like to practice it.
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| Topic | Love |
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Branagh, Kenneth. (2026, January 16). It's very strange that the people you love are often the people you're most cruel to. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-very-strange-that-the-people-you-love-are-113858/
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Branagh, Kenneth. "It's very strange that the people you love are often the people you're most cruel to." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-very-strange-that-the-people-you-love-are-113858/.
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"It's very strange that the people you love are often the people you're most cruel to." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-very-strange-that-the-people-you-love-are-113858/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.










