"It's when someone has an agenda of their own, for the record, that it doesn't work for me"
About this Quote
The intent is defensive without being closed off: she’s not rejecting direction, critique, or even conflict. She’s rejecting a power move. When someone arrives with a preloaded narrative, the room stops being a place where messy, human discovery can happen. It becomes a courtroom, a press junket, a brand meeting. “Doesn’t work for me” is deceptively soft, the kind of boundary you learn to set after years of being mythologized and mined. She’s not accusing anyone outright; she’s refusing the premise.
Subtext: authenticity, in her universe, isn’t a vibe, it’s a method. You can’t manufacture it while simultaneously managing how you’ll be perceived. That tension has followed Morissette since Jagged Little Pill turned confession into a commodity and made her personal life feel like public property. In an era of strategic vulnerability and curated candor, her line lands as a quiet rebuke: if you’re already thinking about the quote you want, you’re not listening.
Quote Details
| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Morissette, Alanis. (2026, February 19). It's when someone has an agenda of their own, for the record, that it doesn't work for me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-when-someone-has-an-agenda-of-their-own-for-43332/
Chicago Style
Morissette, Alanis. "It's when someone has an agenda of their own, for the record, that it doesn't work for me." FixQuotes. February 19, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-when-someone-has-an-agenda-of-their-own-for-43332/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's when someone has an agenda of their own, for the record, that it doesn't work for me." FixQuotes, 19 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-when-someone-has-an-agenda-of-their-own-for-43332/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.




