"It's wonderful to meet so many friends that I didn't used to like"
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A Hall of Fame baseball lifer admitting, with a grin, that affection is often just hindsight with better lighting. Stengel’s line lands because it weaponizes the social ritual of reunion: everyone expects warm nostalgia, so he slips in the petty truth we all edit out. “So many friends” sounds generous until the second clause snaps it shut - these aren’t lifelong confidants, they’re people he once couldn’t stand. The joke is that time didn’t necessarily change them; it changed the story he’s willing to tell about them.
Stengel came up in a world where clubhouses, front offices, and press boxes were pressure cookers of ego, competition, and grudges. In baseball, you spend months trapped with the same personalities, then scatter, then re-encounter them later in softer contexts: old-timers’ games, banquets, reunions, a mic shoved in your face. The quote reads like a seasoned operator’s wink at how reputations and relationships get retrofitted. Rivalries cool. Annoying habits become “quirks.” The guy who blocked your playing time becomes “a great competitor.” That alchemy isn’t pure forgiveness; it’s pragmatism and perspective.
The subtext is also about power. Stengel, older and secure in his legend, can afford to be candid without paying a price. He’s signaling: I remember the frictions, I’m not rewriting history, but I’m choosing conviviality anyway. It’s a baseball-flavored philosophy - not sentimental, not bitter, just shrewdly human.
Stengel came up in a world where clubhouses, front offices, and press boxes were pressure cookers of ego, competition, and grudges. In baseball, you spend months trapped with the same personalities, then scatter, then re-encounter them later in softer contexts: old-timers’ games, banquets, reunions, a mic shoved in your face. The quote reads like a seasoned operator’s wink at how reputations and relationships get retrofitted. Rivalries cool. Annoying habits become “quirks.” The guy who blocked your playing time becomes “a great competitor.” That alchemy isn’t pure forgiveness; it’s pragmatism and perspective.
The subtext is also about power. Stengel, older and secure in his legend, can afford to be candid without paying a price. He’s signaling: I remember the frictions, I’m not rewriting history, but I’m choosing conviviality anyway. It’s a baseball-flavored philosophy - not sentimental, not bitter, just shrewdly human.
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| Topic | Funny Friendship |
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