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Life & Wisdom Quote by Peter McWilliams

"It's your life. Live it with people who are alive. It tends to be contagious"

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McWilliams pulls off a sly bit of moral triage: if your one and only life is the scarce resource, stop spending it around the emotionally dead. The line reads like a pep talk, but it lands like an ultimatum. "It's your life" isn’t feel-good permission; it’s accountability. No one else can log the hours for you, and no one else can excuse how you waste them.

The key move is his deliberately blunt category: "people who are alive". He’s not talking about pulse and oxygen. He means the ones who still have curiosity, appetite, risk tolerance - the capacity to change their mind mid-sentence. The subtext is impatient with social gravity: the circles that reward cynicism as sophistication, or treat numbness like adulthood. McWilliams frames that as a kind of slow contagion too, one you catch by proximity.

Then he flips the metaphor. We usually associate contagion with danger; he weaponizes it as a promise. Energy is transmissible. So is agency. In a culture that romanticizes burnout and ironic detachment, "contagious" becomes the counter-program: choose an environment where aliveness is the default, not the exception. It's a social theory in one punchy turn - you become what your relationships normalize.

Context matters. McWilliams wrote as someone who challenged institutions and paid for it, especially around medical marijuana and the machinery of law and stigma. Read through that life, the quote is less self-help than survival strategy: don’t let systems, or the people who've surrendered to them, talk you into living half-asleep.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
McWilliams, Peter. (2026, January 15). It's your life. Live it with people who are alive. It tends to be contagious. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-your-life-live-it-with-people-who-are-alive-159467/

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McWilliams, Peter. "It's your life. Live it with people who are alive. It tends to be contagious." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-your-life-live-it-with-people-who-are-alive-159467/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's your life. Live it with people who are alive. It tends to be contagious." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-your-life-live-it-with-people-who-are-alive-159467/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Peter McWilliams (August 5, 1949 - June 14, 2000) was a Writer from USA.

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