"I've always been able to decide what was more important at different points in my life, but I never gave up personal things to work, never"
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Deneuve is doing something slyly radical here: she refuses the prestige narrative that still clings to great actresses like perfume. The line reads like a correction to the myth that serious work requires personal sacrifice, especially for women whose careers get framed as either devotion or derailment. She’s not denying ambition; she’s insisting on hierarchy. “Decide what was more important” is the key phrase: it signals control, sequencing, and the unromantic logistics of a long life in public view. Not balance as a wellness slogan, but triage as an art.
The emphatic double-negative - “never... never” - lands as both pride and defense. It anticipates the suspicion that a woman who endures in cinema must have paid in intimacy, motherhood, privacy, softness. Deneuve’s persona has long been mistaken for coolness, even aloofness; this quote reframes that coolness as boundaries. She’s not confessing; she’s declaring jurisdiction over her time.
There’s also an industry subtext: film work arrives in seasons of intensity, then gaps, and those gaps can be read as absence, decline, or “difficult” choices. Deneuve converts them into intention. Coming from someone who became an icon young and stayed one across decades of French cinema, it’s a reminder that longevity isn’t just talent - it’s refusal. Refusal to let the job annex the self, refusal to perform martyrdom as proof of seriousness.
The emphatic double-negative - “never... never” - lands as both pride and defense. It anticipates the suspicion that a woman who endures in cinema must have paid in intimacy, motherhood, privacy, softness. Deneuve’s persona has long been mistaken for coolness, even aloofness; this quote reframes that coolness as boundaries. She’s not confessing; she’s declaring jurisdiction over her time.
There’s also an industry subtext: film work arrives in seasons of intensity, then gaps, and those gaps can be read as absence, decline, or “difficult” choices. Deneuve converts them into intention. Coming from someone who became an icon young and stayed one across decades of French cinema, it’s a reminder that longevity isn’t just talent - it’s refusal. Refusal to let the job annex the self, refusal to perform martyrdom as proof of seriousness.
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| Topic | Work-Life Balance |
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