"I've always been so apathetic. I figured, OK, maybe the world is going to fall down around me. Now I want to make a better world... that's motherhood"
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Coming from Cass Elliot, that turn carries extra cultural weight. As a pop figure in the 60s, she lived inside an era that sold liberation and optimism while still punishing women who didn't fit the approved shapes, roles, and scripts. Elliot was famously judged as much for her body as for her voice; she knew what it felt like to be treated as a public object. Motherhood, in that context, becomes more than personal fulfillment. It's a claim to agency, a reason to care that can't be dismissed as sentimentality or vanity.
The subtext is also a quiet indictment of the times: the world is unstable, maybe even rigged, but a child forces you to negotiate with that instability instead of aestheticizing it. Elliot frames motherhood as an engine of civic imagination, the moment when private life stops being an escape hatch and becomes a mandate.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Elliot, Cass. (2026, January 17). I've always been so apathetic. I figured, OK, maybe the world is going to fall down around me. Now I want to make a better world... that's motherhood. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-been-so-apathetic-i-figured-ok-maybe-45856/
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Elliot, Cass. "I've always been so apathetic. I figured, OK, maybe the world is going to fall down around me. Now I want to make a better world... that's motherhood." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-been-so-apathetic-i-figured-ok-maybe-45856/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've always been so apathetic. I figured, OK, maybe the world is going to fall down around me. Now I want to make a better world... that's motherhood." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-been-so-apathetic-i-figured-ok-maybe-45856/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.







