"I've always been so apathetic. I figured, OK, maybe the world is going to fall down around me. Now I want to make a better world... that's motherhood"
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Apathy is Elliot's starting pose, but it reads less like laziness than self-protection: if the world is going to collapse anyway, why hand it your heart. The first sentence has the flat, practiced cadence of someone who has learned to manage disappointment by keeping expectations low. Then motherhood breaks the spell. Not with a halo, but with a blunt pivot from spectator to stakeholder: "Now I want to make a better world". The emotional trick here is how quickly the moral horizon expands. The "me" of the opening line is a closed room; motherhood swings the door open to a future you can't shrug off.
Coming from Cass Elliot, that turn carries extra cultural weight. As a pop figure in the 60s, she lived inside an era that sold liberation and optimism while still punishing women who didn't fit the approved shapes, roles, and scripts. Elliot was famously judged as much for her body as for her voice; she knew what it felt like to be treated as a public object. Motherhood, in that context, becomes more than personal fulfillment. It's a claim to agency, a reason to care that can't be dismissed as sentimentality or vanity.
The subtext is also a quiet indictment of the times: the world is unstable, maybe even rigged, but a child forces you to negotiate with that instability instead of aestheticizing it. Elliot frames motherhood as an engine of civic imagination, the moment when private life stops being an escape hatch and becomes a mandate.
Coming from Cass Elliot, that turn carries extra cultural weight. As a pop figure in the 60s, she lived inside an era that sold liberation and optimism while still punishing women who didn't fit the approved shapes, roles, and scripts. Elliot was famously judged as much for her body as for her voice; she knew what it felt like to be treated as a public object. Motherhood, in that context, becomes more than personal fulfillment. It's a claim to agency, a reason to care that can't be dismissed as sentimentality or vanity.
The subtext is also a quiet indictment of the times: the world is unstable, maybe even rigged, but a child forces you to negotiate with that instability instead of aestheticizing it. Elliot frames motherhood as an engine of civic imagination, the moment when private life stops being an escape hatch and becomes a mandate.
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