"I've always been struck by how unsuspicious people are in general, if you tell them what you're about"
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The phrasing matters. “Always been struck” frames it as a recurring bruise, a lesson learned the hard way or, more intriguingly, a tactic observed in action. “Unsuspicious” is sharper than “trusting.” Trust implies judgment; unsuspiciousness implies default settings, the mental laziness of assuming you’re safe until evidence forces an update. Then comes the kicker: “if you tell them what you’re about.” It’s colloquial, almost friendly - the kind of phrase used to establish rapport - but here it’s doing double duty as a warning label that no one reads.
The subtext is about how people process risk through narratives, not data. A declared motive provides a story that feels complete. It also triggers a social norm: decent people don’t accuse someone who’s being “straight with them.” Suspicion becomes rude, paranoid, impolite. In that sense, the line is less about gullibility than about civility as a vulnerability.
Contextually, it has the clean menace of a writer’s observation (and a noir-ish one): the con, the politician, the manipulator, even the toxic coworker thrives not by hiding, but by stating their program out loud - counting on the audience’s desire to believe that clarity equals character.
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Smith, Martin C. (2026, January 17). I've always been struck by how unsuspicious people are in general, if you tell them what you're about. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-been-struck-by-how-unsuspicious-people-77895/
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Smith, Martin C. "I've always been struck by how unsuspicious people are in general, if you tell them what you're about." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-been-struck-by-how-unsuspicious-people-77895/.
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"I've always been struck by how unsuspicious people are in general, if you tell them what you're about." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-been-struck-by-how-unsuspicious-people-77895/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







