"I've always been the breadwinner and men don't like that. They turn on you. They bite the hand that feeds them. Eventually, too, they become very jealous of the love one has with an audience"
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The phrasing is deliberately physical and a little ugly: "turn on you", "bite the hand that feeds them". That animal language makes the betrayal feel instinctive, not accidental. It suggests these relationships arent failing because of one bad argument but because status has shifted, and some partners experience that shift as humiliation. Bassey is also pushing back against the romance myth that love neutralizes competition. In her world, love is another economy.
The last sentence sharpens the real threat: not her income, but her audience. A performer has a kind of intimacy with strangers that no private relationship can fully audit or contain. "Jealous of the love one has with an audience" names the weird triangle of fame: the partner competing not with a person, but with a collective desire that keeps arriving every night. Its a veteran artists cold truth, delivered like showbiz gossip, but aimed at the oldest fight about women, visibility, and who gets to be adored without paying for it at home.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bassey, Shirley. (2026, January 16). I've always been the breadwinner and men don't like that. They turn on you. They bite the hand that feeds them. Eventually, too, they become very jealous of the love one has with an audience. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-been-the-breadwinner-and-men-dont-like-113174/
Chicago Style
Bassey, Shirley. "I've always been the breadwinner and men don't like that. They turn on you. They bite the hand that feeds them. Eventually, too, they become very jealous of the love one has with an audience." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-been-the-breadwinner-and-men-dont-like-113174/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've always been the breadwinner and men don't like that. They turn on you. They bite the hand that feeds them. Eventually, too, they become very jealous of the love one has with an audience." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-been-the-breadwinner-and-men-dont-like-113174/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.









