"I've always believed you can get closer to the truth by pretending not to speak it"
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Truth has a way of showing up better in costume. Armistead Maupin, the novelist who turned queer life and chosen family into serialized, gossipy architecture in Tales of the City, is pointing at a writerly hack that doubles as a survival skill: you can say what’s dangerous, intimate, or socially unsayable by acting like you’re not saying it.
The line hinges on a productive contradiction. “Pretending” sounds like evasion, even deception, yet Maupin treats it as a tool of accuracy. Fiction, camp, humor, melodrama, the anecdote framed as “just a story” - these forms disarm the reader’s defenses. They slide past the gatekeepers of politeness, law, and self-image. People resist being lectured into recognition; they’ll confess to themselves while laughing, while eavesdropping, while thinking they’re only being entertained.
Subtext: this is about power. In cultures where certain truths (about sex, class, desire, hypocrisy) are punished, direct speech can be confiscated - by censors, by family, by one’s own fear. So you smuggle it. You make it plausibly deniable. You let characters carry the heat. “I’m not saying this is true,” the writer winks, “I’m just reporting what happened.” The wink is the point.
Context matters: Maupin came of age when queer candor could cost you everything, yet he built a career on making that candor feel neighborly, even cozy. His genius is that the “pretend” isn’t a retreat from truth; it’s the most ethical way to deliver it intact, without turning it into a slogan.
The line hinges on a productive contradiction. “Pretending” sounds like evasion, even deception, yet Maupin treats it as a tool of accuracy. Fiction, camp, humor, melodrama, the anecdote framed as “just a story” - these forms disarm the reader’s defenses. They slide past the gatekeepers of politeness, law, and self-image. People resist being lectured into recognition; they’ll confess to themselves while laughing, while eavesdropping, while thinking they’re only being entertained.
Subtext: this is about power. In cultures where certain truths (about sex, class, desire, hypocrisy) are punished, direct speech can be confiscated - by censors, by family, by one’s own fear. So you smuggle it. You make it plausibly deniable. You let characters carry the heat. “I’m not saying this is true,” the writer winks, “I’m just reporting what happened.” The wink is the point.
Context matters: Maupin came of age when queer candor could cost you everything, yet he built a career on making that candor feel neighborly, even cozy. His genius is that the “pretend” isn’t a retreat from truth; it’s the most ethical way to deliver it intact, without turning it into a slogan.
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