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Wit & Attitude Quote by Kristin Hersh

"I've always chosen my band members based on their sense of humor. It might sound stupid, but it means not only are they fun to live with on a tour bus for years, but humor implies intelligence"

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Kristin Hersh smuggles a hiring philosophy into what sounds like tour-bus small talk, and that’s the trick: she frames humor as logistics, then flips it into a value system. On the surface, it’s a pragmatic musician’s concern - the claustrophobic reality of life in motion, where personality can matter more than chops. But her real claim is bolder: humor isn’t garnish, it’s a cognitive test. If you can land a joke, you can read a room, tolerate ambiguity, and metabolize stress without making everyone else pay for it.

The “might sound stupid” aside is doing quiet work. Hersh anticipates the romantic myth that bands are built on virtuosity, chemistry, and destiny. She punctures it with something unglamorous and human: can we survive each other? That’s a veteran’s perspective, the kind you get after enough green rooms and bad drives to understand that talent doesn’t automatically come with self-awareness. Humor, in her telling, is a proxy for emotional intelligence: timing, restraint, empathy, an ability to hold conflicting truths without going rigid.

There’s also a subtle anti-macho note. Rock history is crowded with the tortured-genius type who treats dysfunction as proof of authenticity. Hersh rejects that bargain. She’s arguing for a band as a functioning micro-society, where wit signals adaptability and care. In an industry that rewards performance, she’s choosing people who can improvise offstage too - and calling that intelligence.

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Hersh, Kristin. (n.d.). I've always chosen my band members based on their sense of humor. It might sound stupid, but it means not only are they fun to live with on a tour bus for years, but humor implies intelligence. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-chosen-my-band-members-based-on-their-102021/

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Hersh, Kristin. "I've always chosen my band members based on their sense of humor. It might sound stupid, but it means not only are they fun to live with on a tour bus for years, but humor implies intelligence." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-chosen-my-band-members-based-on-their-102021/.

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"I've always chosen my band members based on their sense of humor. It might sound stupid, but it means not only are they fun to live with on a tour bus for years, but humor implies intelligence." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-chosen-my-band-members-based-on-their-102021/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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Kristin Hersh (born August 7, 1966) is a Musician from USA.

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