"I've always done things the hard way. I was born like a piece of tangled yarn. The job is trying to untangle it, and I'll probably go on doing it for the rest of my life"
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“I’ve always done things the hard way” reads less like self-pity than self-diagnosis. Allen isn’t confessing to failure; she’s naming a pattern. The subtext is a refusal of the motivational-poster arc where you “fix yourself,” graduate into clarity, and then stay fixed. Her metaphor makes peace with the fact that identity isn’t a makeover montage. It’s maintenance.
The line also quietly pushes back on the entertainment industry’s hunger for clean narratives. Hollywood loves reinvention as a product: the comeback, the redemption, the “new me.” Allen’s yarn image implies a life where the knots are part of the material, not defects to be cut out for audience comfort. That last clause - “I’ll probably go on doing it for the rest of my life” - isn’t defeatist. It’s consent. She’s choosing a long, patient relationship with her own complexity, and that’s a more radical kind of optimism than the shiny version.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Allen, Karen. (2026, January 15). I've always done things the hard way. I was born like a piece of tangled yarn. The job is trying to untangle it, and I'll probably go on doing it for the rest of my life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-done-things-the-hard-way-i-was-born-103404/
Chicago Style
Allen, Karen. "I've always done things the hard way. I was born like a piece of tangled yarn. The job is trying to untangle it, and I'll probably go on doing it for the rest of my life." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-done-things-the-hard-way-i-was-born-103404/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've always done things the hard way. I was born like a piece of tangled yarn. The job is trying to untangle it, and I'll probably go on doing it for the rest of my life." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-done-things-the-hard-way-i-was-born-103404/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.







