"I've always said, since I got to know him and wrote about him, that he's the generation he least appeals to is his own and I think in many ways he was born middle-aged and that's become apparent in recent years"
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“Born middle-aged” is the key barb because it’s not just about taste; it’s about temperament. Holden suggests a personality that arrived already wary of novelty, already fluent in restraint, already leaning toward the conservative comforts of establishment manners. The phrase carries a double implication: an emotional stiffness (risk-averse, self-protective) and a social strategy (playing to audiences who romanticize “maturity” as seriousness). It also lets Holden avoid accusing the subject of being out of touch; he implies the subject was never in touch to begin with.
The back half - “that’s become apparent in recent years” - does quiet narrative work. It hints that time has exposed the mismatch: as culture accelerates, the subject’s default mode reads less like elegance and more like inertia. Holden’s intent is evaluative, not diagnostic: he’s marking a career arc where longevity doesn’t equal contemporaneity, and where “aging well” might actually mean simply becoming more obviously what you always were.
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| Topic | Aging |
|---|---|
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Holden, Anthony. (n.d.). I've always said, since I got to know him and wrote about him, that he's the generation he least appeals to is his own and I think in many ways he was born middle-aged and that's become apparent in recent years. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-said-since-i-got-to-know-him-and-wrote-6239/
Chicago Style
Holden, Anthony. "I've always said, since I got to know him and wrote about him, that he's the generation he least appeals to is his own and I think in many ways he was born middle-aged and that's become apparent in recent years." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-said-since-i-got-to-know-him-and-wrote-6239/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've always said, since I got to know him and wrote about him, that he's the generation he least appeals to is his own and I think in many ways he was born middle-aged and that's become apparent in recent years." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-said-since-i-got-to-know-him-and-wrote-6239/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.







