"I've always said to my men friends, If you really care for me, darling, you will give me territory. Give me land, give me land"
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The intent is both practical and theatrical. Kitt is famous for refusing to shrink herself for anyone, and this line functions like a boundary drawn in ink: if you want access, you pay in permanence. Land is not just wealth; it is leverage. It is something that can't be gaslit, ghosted, or taken back in a mood swing. In a culture that routinely teaches women to treat security as unromantic, she makes security the romance.
The subtext is also a critique of the way men often frame love as ownership of a woman while keeping resources in their own names. Kitt's demand exposes that bargain as lopsided. She doesn't ask to be "taken care of"; she asks to be endowed. The genius is how she makes it sound like a joke you can quote at a cocktail party while smuggling in a radical premise: intimacy without equity is just another performance, and she has already done enough of those.
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| Topic | Witty One-Liners |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kitt, Eartha. (2026, January 17). I've always said to my men friends, If you really care for me, darling, you will give me territory. Give me land, give me land. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-said-to-my-men-friends-if-you-really-48641/
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Kitt, Eartha. "I've always said to my men friends, If you really care for me, darling, you will give me territory. Give me land, give me land." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-said-to-my-men-friends-if-you-really-48641/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've always said to my men friends, If you really care for me, darling, you will give me territory. Give me land, give me land." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-said-to-my-men-friends-if-you-really-48641/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





