"I've always wanted to be independent and answer for myself. That probably is the part of me I would class to be feminist. I'd like to have children; marriage I have a bit of an issue with"
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The line about children versus marriage sharpens the subtext: she’s separating motherhood (a desire) from matrimony (an institution). That distinction lands because it pushes against the default script where romance, marriage, and kids arrive as a bundled package, especially for women in the public eye who are routinely treated like future brides in waiting. “Marriage I have a bit of an issue with” is deliberately vague - not an essay, a boundary. It hints at skepticism toward legal and cultural expectations: the loss of autonomy, the surveillance of “settling down,” the way marriage can turn a woman’s choices into public property.
It also reads like strategic plainspokenness. By calling her feminism “probably” this one trait, Brook anticipates backlash and disarms it. She’s not asking permission; she’s lowering the temperature so she can say the thing that matters: her life won’t be validated by a ring, and wanting a family doesn’t mean surrendering her selfhood.
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| Topic | Marriage |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Brook, Kelly. (2026, January 16). I've always wanted to be independent and answer for myself. That probably is the part of me I would class to be feminist. I'd like to have children; marriage I have a bit of an issue with. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-wanted-to-be-independent-and-answer-119678/
Chicago Style
Brook, Kelly. "I've always wanted to be independent and answer for myself. That probably is the part of me I would class to be feminist. I'd like to have children; marriage I have a bit of an issue with." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-wanted-to-be-independent-and-answer-119678/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've always wanted to be independent and answer for myself. That probably is the part of me I would class to be feminist. I'd like to have children; marriage I have a bit of an issue with." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-always-wanted-to-be-independent-and-answer-119678/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.





