"I've been a godmother loads of times, but being a grandmother is better than anything"
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“Godmother” is a social title you can collect. It’s ceremonial, flattering, often bestowed in moments that feel like photo ops in slow motion: christenings, parties, family performance. “Loads of times” lands with a faint eye-roll, as if she’s acknowledging how easily society hands women symbolic caretaking roles without demanding much intimacy. It’s affection at a safe distance.
“Grandmother,” by contrast, implies real time, real stakes, real continuity. Leigh’s pivot to “better than anything” is intentionally extravagant - the kind of absolute statement actors are paid to sell - but it works because it’s also a rebuke to the idea that fame is the apex of fulfillment. For a woman whose public life was scrutinized for beauty, romance, and breakdowns, the subtext reads like reclamation: a private identity not mediated by critics, studios, or gossip.
The context matters: mid-century stardom packaged women as fantasies; aging threatened the brand. Grandmotherhood, in this framing, becomes a counter-narrative - not an apology for getting older, but a new kind of prestige, earned rather than awarded.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Leigh, Vivien. (2026, January 17). I've been a godmother loads of times, but being a grandmother is better than anything. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-been-a-godmother-loads-of-times-but-being-a-24433/
Chicago Style
Leigh, Vivien. "I've been a godmother loads of times, but being a grandmother is better than anything." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-been-a-godmother-loads-of-times-but-being-a-24433/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've been a godmother loads of times, but being a grandmother is better than anything." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-been-a-godmother-loads-of-times-but-being-a-24433/. Accessed 28 Feb. 2026.






