"I've been a woman for a little over 50 years and have gotten over my initial astonishment. As for conducting an orchestra, that's a job where I don't think sex plays much part"
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Then she pivots to the podium. Conducting, she implies, is neither mystery nor magic, just labor: a “job.” That word choice matters. By stripping the role of romantic genius, Boulanger refuses the usual excuses for exclusion (the idea that leadership in art is an ineffable masculine gift). If it’s work, it’s teachable, practicable, and therefore harder to police with superstition.
The line about sex “not play[ing] much part” carries a double edge. On one level, it’s a tactical understatement designed for an era when outright feminist rhetoric could be dismissed as shrill or self-interested. On another, it exposes the absurdity of tying musical authority to gender at all: the orchestra responds to clarity, time, ear, preparation, and a kind of social intelligence that has nothing to do with biology.
Boulanger’s context sharpens the intent. She was a formidable composer, conductor, and arguably the 20th century’s most influential composition teacher, shaping generations of mostly male “greats.” She’d already proved the point; now she’s declining to keep arguing it. The subtext is resignation turned into control: if the world insists on being astonished, she won’t perform astonishment back.
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Boulanger, Nadia. (n.d.). I've been a woman for a little over 50 years and have gotten over my initial astonishment. As for conducting an orchestra, that's a job where I don't think sex plays much part. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-been-a-woman-for-a-little-over-50-years-and-82640/
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Boulanger, Nadia. "I've been a woman for a little over 50 years and have gotten over my initial astonishment. As for conducting an orchestra, that's a job where I don't think sex plays much part." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-been-a-woman-for-a-little-over-50-years-and-82640/.
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"I've been a woman for a little over 50 years and have gotten over my initial astonishment. As for conducting an orchestra, that's a job where I don't think sex plays much part." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-been-a-woman-for-a-little-over-50-years-and-82640/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.


