"I've been looking forward to doing an album, but it's really sad to see how many doors have been closed because of the gay thing. I thought it was about the music"
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The phrase "the gay thing" does heavy cultural lifting. It's casual, almost self-minimizing, as if he has been coached to treat identity as a nuisance variable rather than a core self. That rhetorical shrug exposes how entertainment industries often demand queerness be either a marketable spectacle or an invisible footnote. Rodriguez isn't arguing theory; he's describing the transactional reality of being reduced to a brand liability.
"I thought it was about the music" is both naive and devastating, and that's why it works. It invokes the industry's favorite myth: meritocracy. If the song is good, the system will reward it. Rodriguez is naming the betrayal of that myth in a single sentence, without trying to sound aggrieved. The timing matters, too: as a Queer Eye-era celebrity, he arrived during a mainstreaming moment that embraced gayness as makeover-friendly TV but still balked at it as pop-star frontman credibility. The quote sits in that tension between visibility and acceptance, where being seen doesn't mean being welcomed.
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| Topic | Equality |
|---|---|
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Rodriguez, Jai. (2026, January 16). I've been looking forward to doing an album, but it's really sad to see how many doors have been closed because of the gay thing. I thought it was about the music. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-been-looking-forward-to-doing-an-album-but-108987/
Chicago Style
Rodriguez, Jai. "I've been looking forward to doing an album, but it's really sad to see how many doors have been closed because of the gay thing. I thought it was about the music." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-been-looking-forward-to-doing-an-album-but-108987/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've been looking forward to doing an album, but it's really sad to see how many doors have been closed because of the gay thing. I thought it was about the music." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-been-looking-forward-to-doing-an-album-but-108987/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.


