"I've been married to one Marxist and one Fascist, and neither one would take the garbage out"
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As an actress who lived through Hollywood’s most ideologically fevered decades, Grant is also winking at the performative nature of belief. In the mid-century arts scene, “Marxist” and “Fascist” aren’t just positions; they’re roles people inhabit with total conviction, social cachet, and sometimes real danger attached. Her punchline punctures the romance of that self-seriousness. Both men, despite opposite creeds, converge on the same domestic entitlement. The spectrum collapses into a single, stubborn fact of gendered expectation: the household still runs on invisible work, and men of wildly different political temperaments can be equally fluent in avoiding it.
The subtext is sharper than a one-liner about lazy husbands. It’s an indictment of how easily ideology can become alibi. The Marxist who talks liberation but won’t touch “women’s work” is a walking contradiction; the Fascist’s refusal fits the hierarchy he claims to admire. Grant’s evenhandedness is the sting: she doesn’t let one side claim moral superiority. She shows how private behavior is the real referendum on public virtue, and how often it fails.
Quote Details
| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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| Source | Later attribution: What Your Divorce Lawyer May Not Tell You (Margery Rubin, 2009) modern compilationISBN: 9781416987178 · ID: jI8qXy8qOKYC
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... I've been married to one Marxist and one Fascist , and neither one would take the garbage out . -LEE GRANT Q I'm tempted to change lawyers midway through my divorce , but isn't that expensive ? How do you know whether to grin and bear ... |
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Grant, Lee. (2026, February 8). I've been married to one Marxist and one Fascist, and neither one would take the garbage out. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-been-married-to-one-marxist-and-one-fascist-167964/
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Grant, Lee. "I've been married to one Marxist and one Fascist, and neither one would take the garbage out." FixQuotes. February 8, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-been-married-to-one-marxist-and-one-fascist-167964/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've been married to one Marxist and one Fascist, and neither one would take the garbage out." FixQuotes, 8 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-been-married-to-one-marxist-and-one-fascist-167964/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





