"I've calmed down already. I don't hook up anymore"
About this Quote
"I don't hook up anymore" lands like a disclaimer, not a confession. It’s less about sex than about the currency of scandal. Hooking up was a plot engine in the reality-TV ecosystem that made Polizzi famous; it generated storylines, headlines, and a neatly packaged form of transgression viewers could consume without consequences. By renouncing it, she’s renegotiating her contract with the audience: you can keep watching, but you have to accept a new genre. The subtext is that "wild" was, at least partly, a role - and roles have expiration dates.
The line also signals a cultural shift: from the era when female messiness was monetized as entertainment to a moment when celebrities are expected to perform growth, boundaries, and self-control on camera. It’s not puritanical so much as strategic. She’s telling you she’s still here, still narrating her own mythology, just swapping shock value for stability - and daring you to find that just as compelling.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Polizzi, Nicole. (2026, January 18). I've calmed down already. I don't hook up anymore. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-calmed-down-already-i-dont-hook-up-anymore-13009/
Chicago Style
Polizzi, Nicole. "I've calmed down already. I don't hook up anymore." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-calmed-down-already-i-dont-hook-up-anymore-13009/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've calmed down already. I don't hook up anymore." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-calmed-down-already-i-dont-hook-up-anymore-13009/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




