"I've chosen not to live in Hollywood, and instead I live in Brooklyn, New York. It's how I like to live. I'd rather hang out with my kids and family when I'm not working. Going to premieres is not my idea of a fun night out"
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Choosing Brooklyn over Hollywood is also a branding move that pretends not to be one. Brooklyn reads as cultured, anonymous-enough, and adult - a place where a working actor can be a parent first without seeming “retired.” It signals seriousness without saying “serious,” distancing her from the influencer-adjacent version of celebrity where premieres double as content. “Not my idea of a fun night out” punctures the glamour myth with a deliberately plain phrase, like she’s talking about skipping a loud bar, not rejecting an entire social ladder.
The subtext is boundary-setting in an era when public life is expected to be personal life. Connelly frames family time not as a moral stance but as a scheduling priority: when she’s not working, she’s off. That’s a quiet rebuke to the Hollywood expectation that you should always be selling the movie, selling yourself, selling the story of your own desirability. Here, the story is competence and containment: show up, do the job, go home.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Connelly, Jennifer. (2026, January 17). I've chosen not to live in Hollywood, and instead I live in Brooklyn, New York. It's how I like to live. I'd rather hang out with my kids and family when I'm not working. Going to premieres is not my idea of a fun night out. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-chosen-not-to-live-in-hollywood-and-instead-i-49827/
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Connelly, Jennifer. "I've chosen not to live in Hollywood, and instead I live in Brooklyn, New York. It's how I like to live. I'd rather hang out with my kids and family when I'm not working. Going to premieres is not my idea of a fun night out." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-chosen-not-to-live-in-hollywood-and-instead-i-49827/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've chosen not to live in Hollywood, and instead I live in Brooklyn, New York. It's how I like to live. I'd rather hang out with my kids and family when I'm not working. Going to premieres is not my idea of a fun night out." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-chosen-not-to-live-in-hollywood-and-instead-i-49827/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.


