"I've chosen not to live in Hollywood, and instead I live in Brooklyn, New York. It's how I like to live. I'd rather hang out with my kids and family when I'm not working. Going to premieres is not my idea of a fun night out"
About this Quote
Hollywood sells a fantasy of constant access: the right parties, the right faces, the right photos proving you were there. Jennifer Connelly’s quote quietly refuses that economy. She isn’t staging a crusade against fame; she’s demoting it. The line that does the real work is “It’s how I like to live” - a simple preference statement that undercuts an industry built on compulsory visibility. Instead of sounding defensive, she makes the alternative feel obvious, even slightly boring, which is the point: normalcy as a flex.
Choosing Brooklyn over Hollywood is also a branding move that pretends not to be one. Brooklyn reads as cultured, anonymous-enough, and adult - a place where a working actor can be a parent first without seeming “retired.” It signals seriousness without saying “serious,” distancing her from the influencer-adjacent version of celebrity where premieres double as content. “Not my idea of a fun night out” punctures the glamour myth with a deliberately plain phrase, like she’s talking about skipping a loud bar, not rejecting an entire social ladder.
The subtext is boundary-setting in an era when public life is expected to be personal life. Connelly frames family time not as a moral stance but as a scheduling priority: when she’s not working, she’s off. That’s a quiet rebuke to the Hollywood expectation that you should always be selling the movie, selling yourself, selling the story of your own desirability. Here, the story is competence and containment: show up, do the job, go home.
Choosing Brooklyn over Hollywood is also a branding move that pretends not to be one. Brooklyn reads as cultured, anonymous-enough, and adult - a place where a working actor can be a parent first without seeming “retired.” It signals seriousness without saying “serious,” distancing her from the influencer-adjacent version of celebrity where premieres double as content. “Not my idea of a fun night out” punctures the glamour myth with a deliberately plain phrase, like she’s talking about skipping a loud bar, not rejecting an entire social ladder.
The subtext is boundary-setting in an era when public life is expected to be personal life. Connelly frames family time not as a moral stance but as a scheduling priority: when she’s not working, she’s off. That’s a quiet rebuke to the Hollywood expectation that you should always be selling the movie, selling yourself, selling the story of your own desirability. Here, the story is competence and containment: show up, do the job, go home.
Quote Details
| Topic | Work-Life Balance |
|---|
More Quotes by Jennifer
Add to List


