"I've come to believe that whoever I am didn't start on December 14, 1946, and isn't going to end on whatever that mysterious date is in the future"
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The phrasing matters. “Whoever I am” is deliberately provisional: not “who I was” or “who I will be,” but a self in motion, refusing a fixed label. Coming from Duke, whose life included early stardom, exploitation, and later public conversations about mental health, that slipperiness reads less like poetic fog and more like hard-won realism. Identity, she implies, isn’t a single coherent narrative; it’s an evolving compilation of damage, resilience, relationships, and reinvention.
Then there’s the sly emotional pivot: “that mysterious date.” Death is acknowledged but not dramatized. She doesn’t conquer it; she shrugs at it. That shrug is the point. By treating the end as unknowable, she reclaims the present from anxiety and from the culture’s obsession with “legacy” as a final product.
Underneath, the quote is a plea for continuity: you are not your most famous role, not your worst episode, not your highlight reel. You’re a current, not a caption.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Duke, Patty. (2026, January 15). I've come to believe that whoever I am didn't start on December 14, 1946, and isn't going to end on whatever that mysterious date is in the future. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-come-to-believe-that-whoever-i-am-didnt-start-160681/
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Duke, Patty. "I've come to believe that whoever I am didn't start on December 14, 1946, and isn't going to end on whatever that mysterious date is in the future." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-come-to-believe-that-whoever-i-am-didnt-start-160681/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've come to believe that whoever I am didn't start on December 14, 1946, and isn't going to end on whatever that mysterious date is in the future." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-come-to-believe-that-whoever-i-am-didnt-start-160681/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.






