"I've exchanged messages and photos of an explicit nature with about six women over the last three years. For the most part, these communications took place before my marriage, though some have sadly took place after. To be clear, I have never met any of these women or had physical relationships at any time"
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Then comes the moral bookkeeping. He divides time into “before my marriage” and “after,” conceding the latter with a calibrated “sadly,” a word that performs remorse without describing harm. “Sadly” frames the act as a personal lapse, not a betrayal with a second victim. The passive construction (“took place”) also blurs agency, as if these exchanges happened around him rather than because of him.
The clincher is the clarifying denial: “To be clear, I have never met…or had physical relationships.” The phrase announces control while smuggling in a cultural assumption that the only truly disqualifying sin is bodily. It’s a legalistic bright line meant to preserve a core identity - faithful husband, serious public servant - by relegating everything else to the virtual, the unserious, the “not real.” That move only works in a pre-Tinder, early-social-media moral framework where “online” can be argued down to “not cheating,” or at least “not cheating like that.”
Context does the rest. Coming from a politician, the statement isn’t just apology; it’s an attempt to limit political contagion. He’s not trying to tell the truth so much as to contain it.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Weiner, Anthony. (2026, January 17). I've exchanged messages and photos of an explicit nature with about six women over the last three years. For the most part, these communications took place before my marriage, though some have sadly took place after. To be clear, I have never met any of these women or had physical relationships at any time. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-exchanged-messages-and-photos-of-an-explicit-57694/
Chicago Style
Weiner, Anthony. "I've exchanged messages and photos of an explicit nature with about six women over the last three years. For the most part, these communications took place before my marriage, though some have sadly took place after. To be clear, I have never met any of these women or had physical relationships at any time." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-exchanged-messages-and-photos-of-an-explicit-57694/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've exchanged messages and photos of an explicit nature with about six women over the last three years. For the most part, these communications took place before my marriage, though some have sadly took place after. To be clear, I have never met any of these women or had physical relationships at any time." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-exchanged-messages-and-photos-of-an-explicit-57694/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.




