"I've experienced huge kindness here, a great welcome and some very generous reviews without the snide social edge I often suffer from at home. I'm not patronized here either, which I much appreciate!"
About this Quote
The rhetoric is strategically modest. She doesn't demand better treatment; she catalogs "huge kindness", "welcome", "generous reviews" with the careful politeness of someone who knows how quickly complaint gets punished as self-pity. That understatement is the tell. Her strongest line is the simplest: "I'm not patronized here either". Patronizing is more corrosive than hostility because it infantilizes, turning success into a novelty and craft into a lucky accident. By naming it, Trollope exposes a cultural script: the woman writing accessible, popular novels gets handled as a guilty pleasure rather than a professional.
Context matters: Trollope's work has long sat in that British fault line between "serious" literature and widely read fiction, a category where reviewers often perform their own sophistication by condescending. Her comment reads like an expatriate's relief and a quiet indictment - not of criticism itself, but of criticism as a social performance.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Trollope, Joanna. (2026, January 17). I've experienced huge kindness here, a great welcome and some very generous reviews without the snide social edge I often suffer from at home. I'm not patronized here either, which I much appreciate! FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-experienced-huge-kindness-here-a-great-80745/
Chicago Style
Trollope, Joanna. "I've experienced huge kindness here, a great welcome and some very generous reviews without the snide social edge I often suffer from at home. I'm not patronized here either, which I much appreciate!" FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-experienced-huge-kindness-here-a-great-80745/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've experienced huge kindness here, a great welcome and some very generous reviews without the snide social edge I often suffer from at home. I'm not patronized here either, which I much appreciate!" FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-experienced-huge-kindness-here-a-great-80745/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








