"I've gone through many, many things. I tell you something, that if it doesn't kill you, you get stronger"
About this Quote
The repetition - “many, many” - matters. It refuses the tidy arc of a single “overcoming” narrative and signals accumulation: not one life-changing trial, but a stack of them. Then she pivots to intimacy: “I tell you something,” a phrase that sounds like backstage talk rather than a podium speech. That conversational lean-in is the craft. She’s not selling resilience as a brand; she’s offering it as hard-won information, the kind you pass along because you don’t want someone else to feel alone in the dark.
The subtext is also slyly conditional. “If it doesn’t kill you” is blunt, almost unsentimental, acknowledging the stakes without romanticizing suffering. Strength here isn’t virtue; it’s an adaptation, an aftereffect. In a culture that often demands inspiring endings on schedule, Collins insists on the messier truth: pain doesn’t automatically ennoble, but survival can rewire you. The line lands because it balances grit and grace - a folk-era ethic applied to personal catastrophe, sung in plain language so it can actually be used.
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| Topic | Resilience |
|---|---|
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Collins, Judy. (2026, January 17). I've gone through many, many things. I tell you something, that if it doesn't kill you, you get stronger. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-gone-through-many-many-things-i-tell-you-52518/
Chicago Style
Collins, Judy. "I've gone through many, many things. I tell you something, that if it doesn't kill you, you get stronger." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-gone-through-many-many-things-i-tell-you-52518/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've gone through many, many things. I tell you something, that if it doesn't kill you, you get stronger." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-gone-through-many-many-things-i-tell-you-52518/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.









