"I've got over so much. Mum wouldn't want anything to come into my life that would make me fragile again"
About this Quote
Then she brings in “Mum” - not as sentimental ornament, but as a moral witness. Emin’s mother becomes an internal audience, a private standard that turns personal boundaries into something almost sacred. It’s a clever move: the speaker isn’t just protecting herself; she’s honoring the dead, keeping faith with the person who once anchored her. That borrowed authority also hints at vulnerability. If you need the imagined permission of a parent, you’re still negotiating with the past.
The sharpest word here is “fragile.” It frames tenderness as risk, not richness. Emin isn’t rejecting love or new experience so much as the version of herself that could be undone by them. In the context of her autobiographical art - where pain is repeatedly translated into public object, and intimacy becomes spectacle - the quote reads like a refusal to let life (or a relationship, or the gaze) turn her back into raw material. It’s self-protection, but also self-curation: resilience as a line in the sand.
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| Topic | Mother |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Emin, Tracey. (2026, January 16). I've got over so much. Mum wouldn't want anything to come into my life that would make me fragile again. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-got-over-so-much-mum-wouldnt-want-anything-to-84932/
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Emin, Tracey. "I've got over so much. Mum wouldn't want anything to come into my life that would make me fragile again." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-got-over-so-much-mum-wouldnt-want-anything-to-84932/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've got over so much. Mum wouldn't want anything to come into my life that would make me fragile again." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-got-over-so-much-mum-wouldnt-want-anything-to-84932/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

