"I've got too many of my friends that retired and went home and got on a rocking chair, and about a year and a half later, I'm always going to the cemetery"
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As a celebrity whose fame came from doing the most high-risk version of “fixing things,” Adair isn’t romanticizing danger so much as refusing the fantasy that safety equals life. The subtext is blunt: purpose is a survival mechanism. The rocking chair becomes a symbol of surrender, not rest. It’s not that retirement is literally fatal; it’s that the loss of routine, identity, and stakes can hollow someone out fast, especially men of his generation whose friendships and self-worth were welded to work.
The phrasing matters: “too many of my friends” makes it communal, almost mournful, while “I’m always going” turns death into an annoying errand he’s tired of running. He’s selling a worldview where staying useful is an ethical choice, not a lifestyle brand. Coming from Adair, it lands as both warning and confession: the work didn’t just make him famous; it kept him alive.
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| Topic | Retirement |
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| Featured | This quote was our Quote of the Day on December 2, 2024 |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Adair, Red. (2026, January 11). I've got too many of my friends that retired and went home and got on a rocking chair, and about a year and a half later, I'm always going to the cemetery. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-got-too-many-of-my-friends-that-retired-and-155875/
Chicago Style
Adair, Red. "I've got too many of my friends that retired and went home and got on a rocking chair, and about a year and a half later, I'm always going to the cemetery." FixQuotes. January 11, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-got-too-many-of-my-friends-that-retired-and-155875/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've got too many of my friends that retired and went home and got on a rocking chair, and about a year and a half later, I'm always going to the cemetery." FixQuotes, 11 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-got-too-many-of-my-friends-that-retired-and-155875/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.












