"I've got two daughters. 9 years old and 6 years old. I am going to teach them first of all about values and morals. But if they make a mistake, I don't want them punished with a baby"
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The sharpest move is the phrase “punished with a baby.” It’s blunt, almost impolite, and that’s the point. “Punished” recodes forced parenthood as retribution, not redemption; it strips away sentimental language and makes the cost legible. He’s not romanticizing teenage pregnancy as character-building, and he’s not calling children burdens in general. He’s arguing that pregnancy should not be weaponized as a social penalty for sexual activity, especially when the penalty falls disproportionately on young women.
Context matters: as a national politician, Obama is threading a needle between cultural conservatism and public-health pragmatism. By anchoring the argument in fatherhood, he borrows credibility in a debate where men are often seen as abstracting women’s lives. The subtext is unmistakable: real morality isn’t about enforcing consequences after the fact; it’s about preventing harm before it becomes irreversible.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Obama, Barack. (2026, January 15). I've got two daughters. 9 years old and 6 years old. I am going to teach them first of all about values and morals. But if they make a mistake, I don't want them punished with a baby. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-got-two-daughters-9-years-old-and-6-years-old-28001/
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Obama, Barack. "I've got two daughters. 9 years old and 6 years old. I am going to teach them first of all about values and morals. But if they make a mistake, I don't want them punished with a baby." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-got-two-daughters-9-years-old-and-6-years-old-28001/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've got two daughters. 9 years old and 6 years old. I am going to teach them first of all about values and morals. But if they make a mistake, I don't want them punished with a baby." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-got-two-daughters-9-years-old-and-6-years-old-28001/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.




