"I've gotten away with a lot in my life. The older you get the more you realize you're not getting away with it, it's taking its toll somewhere. So you try not to put yourself in those situations. Part of the mysterious process called growing up. Some people do that better than others"
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The subtext is less scandal than fatigue. “Taking its toll somewhere” is deliberately nonspecific, which is smart: it lets listeners project their own damage onto it (health, relationships, reputation, self-respect) without turning the quote into tabloid bait. It also nods to a peculiarly modern dread: consequences aren’t always immediate, and they aren’t always obvious, but they accumulate quietly until your body or your mind starts doing the accounting for you.
As an actor who became a symbol of polished masculinity on Mad Men, Hamm’s candor plays against type. Don Draper sells the illusion of consequence-free reinvention; Hamm describes the opposite, the slow narrowing of choices as you age and learn which risks aren’t “risk” so much as deferred harm. The pivot to “you try not to put yourself in those situations” is the real adult move here: less about willpower, more about environment management. Growing up, in Hamm’s telling, isn’t purity. It’s pattern recognition and self-editing - and the admission that not everyone learns at the same speed, or at all.
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Hamm, Jon. (2026, January 15). I've gotten away with a lot in my life. The older you get the more you realize you're not getting away with it, it's taking its toll somewhere. So you try not to put yourself in those situations. Part of the mysterious process called growing up. Some people do that better than others. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-gotten-away-with-a-lot-in-my-life-the-older-166043/
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Hamm, Jon. "I've gotten away with a lot in my life. The older you get the more you realize you're not getting away with it, it's taking its toll somewhere. So you try not to put yourself in those situations. Part of the mysterious process called growing up. Some people do that better than others." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-gotten-away-with-a-lot-in-my-life-the-older-166043/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've gotten away with a lot in my life. The older you get the more you realize you're not getting away with it, it's taking its toll somewhere. So you try not to put yourself in those situations. Part of the mysterious process called growing up. Some people do that better than others." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-gotten-away-with-a-lot-in-my-life-the-older-166043/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.





