"I've had 60 years of ups and downs, and all of the downs that I've had, I'm happy that I've had them because it's taught me to appreciate all the ups"
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The phrasing is deliberate: “all of the downs that I’ve had, I’m happy that I’ve had them.” It’s a rhetorical dare. Most people will admit hardship made them stronger; fewer will say they’re glad it happened. That extra step reframes “downs” as tuition paid, not just wounds endured. The subtext is control. When you can narrate pain as instruction, you stop letting it be only theft. In a culture that treats suffering as either spectacle or something to hide, LaBelle makes it purposeful without romanticizing it.
There’s also an artist’s pragmatism here. Music careers are built on cycles: hot streaks, dry spells, reinventions, personal crises that leak into the work. “Appreciate all the ups” isn’t about gratitude in the abstract; it’s about maintaining the emotional range required to keep performing, to keep meaning what you sing. LaBelle’s intent is quietly disciplinary: take the hits, metabolize them, and don’t let success make you forget how fragile it is.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
LaBelle, Patti. (2026, January 17). I've had 60 years of ups and downs, and all of the downs that I've had, I'm happy that I've had them because it's taught me to appreciate all the ups. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-had-60-years-of-ups-and-downs-and-all-of-the-80496/
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LaBelle, Patti. "I've had 60 years of ups and downs, and all of the downs that I've had, I'm happy that I've had them because it's taught me to appreciate all the ups." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-had-60-years-of-ups-and-downs-and-all-of-the-80496/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've had 60 years of ups and downs, and all of the downs that I've had, I'm happy that I've had them because it's taught me to appreciate all the ups." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-had-60-years-of-ups-and-downs-and-all-of-the-80496/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.



