"I've had many nicknames over the years: V, Nessa, Nessy Poo, Nessy Bear and Van. Only my parents call me Van, though, and I hate it. I get embarrassed"
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The sting lands on “Van,” a name that should be harmless but becomes a social booby trap because it’s reserved for the people who can still make her feel like a kid. “Only my parents call me Van” reads like a boundary disguised as trivia. It’s not just that she dislikes the sound; she dislikes what it reveals about her origin story. Parents don’t use your stage-ready name. They use the one that remembers braces, awkward phases, and the uncurated self.
“I hate it. I get embarrassed” is blunt, almost deliberately unpolished, and that’s why it works. She’s not performing gratitude or self-mythology; she’s admitting the vulnerability of being publicly recognized while privately infantilized. In an era where stars sell “authenticity” as content, this feels like the opposite: a quick glimpse of authenticity that isn’t for sale, because it’s tied to family and the loss of control that comes with it.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hudgens, Vanessa. (2026, January 14). I've had many nicknames over the years: V, Nessa, Nessy Poo, Nessy Bear and Van. Only my parents call me Van, though, and I hate it. I get embarrassed. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-had-many-nicknames-over-the-years-v-nessa-154953/
Chicago Style
Hudgens, Vanessa. "I've had many nicknames over the years: V, Nessa, Nessy Poo, Nessy Bear and Van. Only my parents call me Van, though, and I hate it. I get embarrassed." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-had-many-nicknames-over-the-years-v-nessa-154953/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've had many nicknames over the years: V, Nessa, Nessy Poo, Nessy Bear and Van. Only my parents call me Van, though, and I hate it. I get embarrassed." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-had-many-nicknames-over-the-years-v-nessa-154953/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



