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"I've had so many interviews where the last question is, Are you gay? I had to find very creative ways to say that I was gay, but that I wasn't going to talk about it"

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The fatigue in Portia de Rossi's line comes from how casually an interview can turn into an extraction. "The last question" signals a familiar media ritual: you do the work of being charming, promotable, legible, and then you get hit with the question that’s treated as both gossip and confession. Not about craft, not about the project, but about the body and the label. The placement matters. It’s framed as an afterthought, which is exactly the insult: queerness is positioned as a spicy add-on, a punchline, a "real" revelation.

Her phrasing exposes the trap. "Very creative ways" reads like a comedian’s setup, but it’s also the language of survival. Creativity here isn’t self-expression; it’s evasive maneuvering, coded speech, the PR art of telling the truth without giving anyone something they can package. She’s describing a double bind that defined Hollywood for years: be authentic enough to seem honest, but not so explicit that you become "an issue" or a headline that eclipses the work.

The sharpest turn is the sentence’s internal contradiction: "I was gay, but... wasn't going to talk about it". That "but" is the boundary line she’s forced to draw in public, a way of reclaiming control in a space designed to take it. It’s not shame so much as self-defense against an industry that treats identity as content. De Rossi’s intent is to make the audience notice the coercion hiding inside "just a question."

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Rossi, Portia de. (2026, January 16). I've had so many interviews where the last question is, Are you gay? I had to find very creative ways to say that I was gay, but that I wasn't going to talk about it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-had-so-many-interviews-where-the-last-83100/

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Rossi, Portia de. "I've had so many interviews where the last question is, Are you gay? I had to find very creative ways to say that I was gay, but that I wasn't going to talk about it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-had-so-many-interviews-where-the-last-83100/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've had so many interviews where the last question is, Are you gay? I had to find very creative ways to say that I was gay, but that I wasn't going to talk about it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-had-so-many-interviews-where-the-last-83100/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.

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Portia de Rossi

Portia de Rossi (born January 31, 1973) is a Actress from Australia.

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