"I've had some movies that have been ridiculed, but that's OK with me. I don't feel that really defines me. Should I change who I am to be popular?"
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The subtext is a veteran actor refusing the permanent audition. “Should I change who I am to be popular?” reads as a rhetorical question, but it’s also a challenge to a system that rewards self-editing: chase the trend, sand down the weird edges, pick the safer script, play the game. Costner frames popularity as a temptation with a price tag, not a neutral goal. He’s implicitly arguing for continuity: the same instincts that lead to ridiculed choices also lead to the work that lasts.
Context matters because Costner’s career has always swung between earnest ambition and public side-eye, from the grand seriousness of his passion projects to the backlash that follows big, expensive risks. In today’s algorithmic attention economy, where “ridiculed” can mean a weeklong social-media dogpile, the quote doubles as a coping strategy and a cultural critique: if the crowd gets to define you, you’ll spend your life reacting. Costner’s point is that survival - and maybe integrity - comes from refusing that contract.
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Costner, Kevin. (2026, January 16). I've had some movies that have been ridiculed, but that's OK with me. I don't feel that really defines me. Should I change who I am to be popular? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-had-some-movies-that-have-been-ridiculed-but-103443/
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Costner, Kevin. "I've had some movies that have been ridiculed, but that's OK with me. I don't feel that really defines me. Should I change who I am to be popular?" FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-had-some-movies-that-have-been-ridiculed-but-103443/.
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"I've had some movies that have been ridiculed, but that's OK with me. I don't feel that really defines me. Should I change who I am to be popular?" FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-had-some-movies-that-have-been-ridiculed-but-103443/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.






