"I've had to relearn how I work with people, so that if and when I do avoid different things, I don't send any messages in doing so"
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The syntax is a tell. “If and when I do avoid different things” is vague in a way that reads less like privacy and more like caution. He won’t name what he’s avoiding, because naming it would locate the controversy. Instead, he’s describing avoidance as a behavior with collateral damage: it “send[s] any messages.” That’s the core anxiety here - not just what he does, but how it’s read. In a field where intention is constantly inferred from images, he’s focused on the meta-communication of boundaries: how to step back without implying judgment, guilt, desire, disgust, fear.
The subtext is reputational triage. He’s attempting to separate withdrawal from accusation, distance from condemnation, restraint from rejection. It’s also a quiet admission that in creative work, especially intimate portraiture, the process is part of the product. The cultural context is a post-consent, post-#MeToo media environment where “working with people” is scrutinized as much as the final photograph, and where silence or avoidance can speak louder than a statement.
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Sturges, Jock. (2026, February 20). I've had to relearn how I work with people, so that if and when I do avoid different things, I don't send any messages in doing so. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-had-to-relearn-how-i-work-with-people-so-that-11698/
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Sturges, Jock. "I've had to relearn how I work with people, so that if and when I do avoid different things, I don't send any messages in doing so." FixQuotes. February 20, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-had-to-relearn-how-i-work-with-people-so-that-11698/.
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"I've had to relearn how I work with people, so that if and when I do avoid different things, I don't send any messages in doing so." FixQuotes, 20 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-had-to-relearn-how-i-work-with-people-so-that-11698/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.








